Is it really love?

Sometimes, when you give too much to a person, yet the person does not appreciate it at all.

What will you do?



Lately, I picked up a counseling call. The lady on the phone felt that she was not able to let go of a rotten relationship. She was the one who kept giving all these years yet the guy she loves does not really love her at all.

Sometimes, when a guy treated you badly, it may mean that he's not that into you. Let go, or get hurt even more. Although girls are always being taught to be nice to everyone. But, we are not born to please people. We're born to serve God, and serve others (not to please them). We're God's daughters, and He has a special purpose for each one of us. For our unique purposes in life, He grants us different and unique gifts to complete those purposes.




It's hard to let go a person who you loved so much. But, when you get hurt for so many times, sometimes, you may feel confused about the whole
thing. Did you really choose to stay because you loved that person or was it because of something else?